The Revelation of Character
The Four Theatres
No aspect of character is given, obvious or amenable to simple practice. Just as the self needs to be discovered and actualized over time, so each component of character building needs active inquiry and reflection in situations that call for it.
The term, «character», suggests the theatre, and often implies goodness. (If that implication is inappropriate, then the reference is expanded to «lack of character» or «bad character».) This framework proposes that you discover yourself as you are tested in four theatres. At the same time, the quality of your character is revealed to others. In this way, our lives become public spectacles.
The function and focus of each theatre of authenticity are presented below, and examined in more detail in the next topic.
Maintain Integrity: R"G44
The function of integrity is to be true to your better self at critical moments.
The focus is on choice and congruence.
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Every single choice that you make is an expression of your character and the ethical standards that you hold. The critical requirement is that all choices should reflect a unity of purpose and value that is both distinctive (i.e. you) and unequivocally good and right because is based on help for others. Because you create psychosocial reality by communicating, it is essential that the life you lead and the choices you make are congruent with what you say in regard to values and personal principles.
Note: Integrity is a term that carries many meanings. See more here.
Be Present: R"G43
The function of presence is to manifest your self distinctively in any situation.
The focus is on attention and voice.
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A person communicates continually: non-verbally if not verbally. Whatever the immediate situation, you should be attentive, open to others, and concentrating on being in the moment. That means being consciously aware of the nature of that situation, and being yourself within it. When you contribute, you speak from your own knowledge and experience in a pertinent way.
Value Talents: R"G42
The function of valuing your talent is to ensure cultivation of your self's natural abilities.
The focus is on distinction and uniqueness.
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Everyone has different talents and these are experienced as part of your self. You can take no credit for their mere existence, insofar as genetic endowment and often upbringing are their source. Talents are personal gifts, and they must be valued or they will not be nurtured and developed properly. Talents are the route by which you (i.e. your «self») can be unique and make a contribution of the highest quality possible for you.
Be a Hero: R"G41
The function of heroism is to take up worthy and suitable challenges that present themselves.
The focus is on challenge and adventure.
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As you grow and develop, you encounter a range of opportunities and must confront difficulties. The requirement here is that these must be handled without knowing exactly how your life will be shaped and what the end-result is going to be. Looking forward, it is scary and risky. Looking back, you should be able to tell some great stories.
Originally posted: 10-May-2013