Means of Proceeding: G3-Triads

Maintain Intentions

Once continuity-G2 is established, the next requirement to render assistance is to maintain intentions that govern the effort and its emergent plans.

Plans never last the course, and so it is essential to make adjustments to keep the process on track.

The willingness to do this appears to be enabled by groups that contain an additional level. This leads to formation of 5 triads. Each triad has a qualifier that emerges from facing-L3. This is provisionally proposed to be «explicitly» in the sense of being open, clear and aware of essential features of the situation.

The triad as a whole must be explicit, and the highest level specifically requires the g3-explicit quality. The middle level must be g2-unequivocal, and the lowest level must be g1-confident.

Maintaining intentions calls on distinct means of proceeding which are as follows:

  • Coping (G31)
  • Following (G32)
  • Confronting (G33)
  • Immersing (G34)
  • Venturing (G35)

The function of the triads is proposed as: to overcome obstacles while maintaining direction and momentum.

The triads reveal a progression upwards from the mundane, immediate and unavoidable through to the more imaginative occasional and optional.

Given that explicit is the qualifier, dysfunction shows up as a loss of focus and activities that drift away from the relevant goals.

Destructiveness at G3 shows up as sabotage of the attempt to render assistance by ignoring the relevant required intentions and substituting undesired or inappropriate goals.

Properties: All the means involve entangling yourself in a problematic situation. ARE THERE SPECIFIC PROPERTIES?

Oscillating Pattern?

The potential for a pattern emerges from the contrast noted between G1-monads and g2-dyads.

G1-vehicles of faith are a matter of personal assertion directed outwards to generate hope in others.

By contrast, G2-promises of continuity are directed inwards to oneself but dependent on approval from others confirming the receipt of reasssurance

The contrast suggests that G3-means of proceeding might resemble G1-vehicles. On examination: coping, following, confronting, immersing & venturing do appear to be expressions of personal intention and responsibility. So use of G3-means of proceeding is a matter of personal assertion directed outwards to enable maintenance of intentions—confirming a likely oscillating pattern.

Means of Proceeding

Cope-G31

Function: To deal with a situation calmly despite its many demands.

When rendering assistance, the situation is never easy. If it were, then assistance would likely not be needed. Often those in receipt of the aid create difficulties through seemingly unreasonable entreaties.

In most cases, situations evolve in unpredictable ways, often triggered by the presence of aid. Typically there are intrusions, distractions, obstacles and resistances. Whatever happens, the situation must be dealt with in a calm methodical way.

Coping is based in:

L1: Confidently trying because it is about doing, and confidence enables calmness.

L2: Unequivocally believing because.....

L3: Explicitly facing the actual and ever-changing reality of the situation.

Stance: Reactive.

Prevalence: Invariable and unavoidable, coping is obligatory and generally applicable.

Time Horizon: Coping is immediate and exists in a continuous present.

Failure: If coping fails, then there is a collapse in the endeavour and the likelihood of abandonment of assistance.

Follow-G32

Function: To stay aligned with given directions despite personal reservations.

Given directions, whether from a leader or based in a group consensus, may seem incoherent, inconsistent, debatable, misguided or contrary to your own judgement. The group itself may be uncertain or wavering in its endorsement.

Following is based in:

L2: Confidently believing in the value of the directions, because otherwise reservations will undermine your participation.

L3: Unequivocally facing the realities because

L4: Explicitly participating which is why the directions that are given by the group or a leader within it cannot be ignored. Defiance would entail stopping participating and, depending on the seriousness, probably result in exclusion.

Stance: Receptive.

Prevalence: Ubiquitous. Everyone, even the leader, is also expected to be a follower. Rather than being an expression of willingness, following is often more like a habit of subordination.

Time Horizon: Following is also exists in a continuous present. However, it may be needed only for a pre-defined or limited period.

Failure: If following ceases, this is defiance or disobedience. If widespread, then the group is liable to fall into disarray. Following persists if there is defection or rebellion—just transferred to an alternative leadership.

Confront-G33

Function: To highlight uncomfortable realities despite social resistance and potential hostility.

Confrontation is often awkward or uncomfortable. It may be unconventional in the group, affect vested interests, embarrass members or leaders, present as a threat, appear as arrogance, and ruffle feathers in the hierarchy. The possibility of being ignored, rejected or discredited is high.

Confronting is based in:

L3Confidently facing a reality in which many or most in the group are ignoring something crucial like a danger, a failure, a mistake, a loss, an opportunity.

L4Unequivocally participating in the group and its future. If this was not so important, taking the chance of confronting would not occur.

L5: Explicitly risking your position and reputation in the group because of the hoped for benefit that will accrue if what has been ignored or avoided is taken seriously and addressed.

Stance: Assertive.

Prevalence: Less common because of tendencies in groups to avoid conflict, seek consensus and value conformity.

Time Horizon: Confronting occurs episodically. It happens at a specific moment, either because the time is felt to be right or because an issue has come to light and any delay in recognizing it is too risky.

Failure: Seeing the need for confrontation and refusing to speak up is a form of submission or a capitulation to groupthink.

Immerse-G34

Function: To absorb oneself in a challenge despite costs and uncertainty of success.

In many situations, there is a block to progress that resists conventional comprehension from the outside. In order to proceed, there must be a deliberate immersion in the situation or its block to allow understanding imaginatively from the inside.

Immersion takes attention, time and energy away from the obvious needs and immediate practicalities seen by others. It is difficult to assess in advance whether immersion will generate valuable insights.

Immersing is based in:

L4: Confidently participating in the situation and possibly with individuals associated with the the block.

L5: Unequivocally risking your time, your energies, your balance, the support and perhaps even the respect of others.

L6: Explicitly learning what you need to know to overcome the specific block that precipitated this approach.

Stance: Creative.

Prevalence: Optional and selective, with this path depending on personal preferences as well as the particular role adopted or assigned.

Time Horizon: Extended for as long as required..

Failure: If immersion is required, then avoidance or failure leads to misdirection or a superficial form of proceeding that will not succeed.

Venture-G35

Function: To embark on an unfamiliar endeavour despite its unknown requirements and consequences.

Entering the unknown involves learning from experience while facing dangers that cannot be wholly predicted or mitigated in advance.

Venturing is based in:

L5: Confidently risking because it is obvious that any unfamiliar initiative will expose you to hazards that cannot be wholly predicted or mitigated in advance, and yet confidence is essential or venturing will be avoided.

L6: Unequivocally learning occurs as you reflect on your progress along new paths and into new arenas. You will also be forced to develop new knowledge and skills to handle surprises and dangers encountered along the way.

L7: Explicitly trusting your instincts and your imagination as well your colleagues on this new initiative.

Stance: Reflective.

Prevalence: Exceptional and highly individualized.

Time Horizon: Variable: the endeavour may be time-limited or open-ended.

Failure: Venturing fails if it is unrealistic or there is a lack of necessary forethought.


ClosedSee Table Summary for Easier Comparison

Triad Means of Proceeding Function in
Maintaining Intention
The Challenge Stance Prevalence Time Horizon Failure
G35 Venture To embark on an unfamiliar endeavour despite its unknown requirements and consequences. Entering the unknown involves learning from experience while facing dangers that cannot be wholly predicted or mitigated in advance. Reflective Exceptional, individualized. Variable: Time-limited or open-ended. Unrealistic. Lack of forethought.
G34 Immerse To absorb oneself in a challenge despite costs and uncertainty of success. A block to progress that cannot be grasped from simple observation. Attention, time and energy is diverted from obvious needs, while ultimate benefit is difficult to assess. Creative Optional, selective and dependent on role and personal preference. Extended for as long as required. Superficiality
Misdirection
G33 Confront To highlight uncomfortable realities despite social resistance and potential hostility. Confrontation is likely to be unconventional, disturb vested interests, appear as arrogance, or violate hierarchy—and may lead to rejection or discrediting. Assertive Less common because groups try to avoid conflict.
Episodic: used at a specific moment felt to be right or because any delay is too risky. Submission
Capitulation
G32 Follow To stay aligned with given directions despite personal reservations. Given directions may seem inconsistent, incoherent, lacking group backing, debatable, misguided or contrary to your own judgement. Receptive Ubiquitous. Indefinite, or for a pre-defined or limited period. Defiance, ,
Disobedience.
G31 Cope To deal with a situation calmly despite its many demands. The situation is difficult: ever-changing, unpredictable, and with obstacles, intrusions, distractions and resistances. Reactive Obligatory, so
unavoidable.
Immediate: continuous present. Collapse, abandonment.

Transition

Proceeding has been implemented, but often, especially in difficult situations, demands escalate from multiple sides. Emotional pressure is often brought to bear. Wishes that accompany intentions to help can lead a person into uncharted choppy waters.

If balance is lost, rendering assistance becomes difficult or gets disrupted. The solution here is not to withdraw or avoid, but to honestly address the relationships that are at the root of pressures and difficulties.

It turns out that it is possible to take deliberate steps to retain balanceby adding an additional adjacent level to form tetrads. They reveal powerful ways to preserve relationships—if the willingness is there.


Originally posted: 20-May-2026.