Promises of Continuity: G2-Dyads

"If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same."

"If", Rudyard Kipling

Willingness to Reassure

Generating hope-G1 when things are difficult is encouraging, but it almost immediately generates a worry as to whether these efforts are just a blip. There is a desire and a need for something ongoing, for a continuity of active positivity.

That can be handled through expressing a determination to proceed so as to offer the possibility of ultimate success, no matter how difficult the challenge appears to be.

Willingness in the form of determination is about reassuringly promising that there will be continuity. This appears to be enabled by combining adjacent levels to form 6 dyads.

Dyads require a qualifier which should fit with believing-L2 and this is provisionally proposed as «unequivocal». Unequivocal means being unambiguous, unconditional and without displaying inner doubts or qualifications. In any dyad, the higher level (g2) offers an unequivocal quality to bolster the g1-confidence of the lower level.

Applying determination communicates a promise of continuity and that can be generated in 6 ways:

  • Persevering (G21)
  • Realizing (G22)
  • Engaging (G23)
  • Committing (G24)
  • Developing (G25)
  • Cultivating (G26)

The function of the dyads is proposed as: to establish for oneself and others that efforts will be sustained despite setbacks.

These 6 dyads reveal 3 different foci for determination:

  • In the lower 2 dyads, the focus is personal
    i.e. based only on a person's willingness or reluctance:
    Perseverance is volitional, while Realization is cognitive.

  • In the middle 2 dyads, the focus is inter-personal
    i.e. involving others directly or indirectly or withdrawing:
    Engagement is relational, while Commitment is social.

  • In the upper 2 dyads, the focus is intra-personal:
    i.e. fostering growth or rejecting inner evolution
    Development is maturational, while Cultivation is transcendental.

Requirements: All the promises involve binding yourself despite not knowing the consequences. As a result, they all call for patience, courage, self-discipline and tolerance of discomfort.

Dysfunction shows up through equivocating or operating in a perfunctory way, which may appear as hesitation, vacillation, or dithering.

Destructiveness presents here as betrayal due to previous experiences of being let down or even abandoned after hopes have been raised.

Promises of Continuity

Persevere-G21

Function in applying determination: To provide continuing effort—despite difficulties and setbacks.

Persevering is constituted by confidently trying-g1 with unequivocal beliefs-g2 related the effort.

Base is found in confidently trying. If there is a failure, then trying must occur with a different approach, indeed there is no limit to the different tacks that may be taken because once a limit is hit, confidence goes and perseverance stops.

Drive comes from application of relevant unshakeable beliefs, including that the effort is worthwhile and that a suitable path forward can be found one way or another. There are also likely to be specific beliefs relating to the issue and its context.

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Focus of BindingA task that achieves a goal.

Inner Requirement: Stamina and resilience.

What is at Stake:  Tangible resources that are consumed and potentially wasted if perseverance is fruitless.

Dysfunction:  Irrational stubbornness in the face of changed circumstances or new information spoils perseverance. Distractions can lead to persevering becoming intermittent with loss of momentum.

Consequence of Absence: Giving up far too easily and unnecessarily on relatively simple challenges, while complex or seemingly impossible challenges are unlikely to be commenced.

Realize-G22

Function in applying determination: To become aware of a crucial aspect of a situation—despite the possibility of being wrong.

Realizing is constituted by confidently believing-g1 and unequivocally facing-g2 the situation.

Base is provided by confidence in beliefs that are directly relevant to the situation or related to the context or oneself.

Drive comes from being resolute in cutting through superficial appearances and becoming aware of all relevant aspects, regardless of personal views and feelings like pain or embarrassment, so as to know what is really going on.

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Focus of Binding: A truth that cannot be gainsayed.

Inner Requirement: Penetrating perception that is unsatisfied with first impressions or superficial data but gets to the heart of the matter.

What is at Stake:  Conforming to what everyone knows and seeing what everyone sees is offers safety, so being aware outside this boundary is dangerous and risks credibility. The more difficult it is to penetrate to the underlying reality, the greater the risk to personal credibility. Getting it wrong can be even more damaging to credibility.

Dysfunction:  A preference for comforting illusions will prevent or weaken penetration to a disturbing reality. Biases may intrude and lead to distorted views.

Consequence of Absence: A person becomes blind or complacently develops or accepts delusional views. Conventional wisdom may be expediently adopted rather than allowing awareness to develop. Attempting the impossible will have no chance of success.

Engage-G23

Function in applying determination: To become an intrinsic part of a social situation—despite possible uncongenial or detrimental events in the future.

Engaging is constituted by confidently facing-g1 the reality and unequivocally participating-g2 with one or more others.

Base is provided by confidence in knowledge about the object to engage with, often a person or group but it could be a project.

Drive comes from an irrevocable participation in accord with social conventions and situational requirements.

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Focus of Binding:  A presence that will be socially recognized.

Inner Requirement: Some affinity based in a mutuality in feelings, shared understanding, and similar tastes. This enables sympathy, favour, support and loyalty for the other party.

What is at Stake:  If the sympathy and affinity are not genuine and persisting, the engagement quickly weakens and a person's sincerity is questioned.

Dysfunction:  If the necessary boundaries and distance are not maintained, there is a one-sided infatuation, over-involvement or enmeshment.

Consequence of Absence: A person becomes disconnected and stays detached from others and this can block development and cooperation that is typically essential when attempting the impossible.

Commit-G24

Function in applying determination: To bind oneself to a path into the future—despite uncertainty about the process or outcome.

Committing is constituted by confidently participating-g1 and unequivocally risking-g2.

Base is found in confidently belonging to a group or social situation which is affected by the promise and anchors your identity.

Drive comes from unequivocally wanting the benefit that is expected by being bound in the face of known dangers.

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Focus of Binding: A destiny because your personal identity gets irreversibly shaped by each and every commitment.

Inner Requirement: Because a commitment is identity-defining, you must take ownership of it wherever it may lead and whatever the ultimate outcome.

What is at Stake:  With a commitment, there is maximum concern that you follow through on what you promise and accept the risks. So your integrity is at stake.

Dysfunction:  Over-confidence can lead to over-commitment causing great difficulty in delivering expected results. Reckless commitment can generate unnecessary dangers and is likely to cause harm.

Consequence of Absence: A refusal to commit leads to social isolation and personal emptiness. No difficult challenge will be taken on.

Develop-G25

Function in applying determination: To enable new possibilities to emerge—despite likely costs, errors and failures in the process.

Developing is constituted by confidently risking-g1 and unequivocally learning-g2.

Base is provided by confidently putting energy and resources into experiments and new personal experiences with no certainty of the effects.

Drive comes from an unstoppable need to fill gaps in ability by continually learning in different ways and reflecting constructively on whatever occurs.

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Focus of BindingA potential that lies within you and that will not be realized unless it is deliberately worked on.

Inner Requirement: Development depends on the activation of aspirations and relevant ideals to shape and power the learning effort.

What is at Stake:  Development is the foundation for personal and professional growth. The continual flow of social changes and technological innovations generates demands for mastery so the future can be embraced.

Dysfunction: Growth goes wrong if development is not taken seriously enough and a person falls behind peers. Sometimes development is weak because of poor teaching or because of superficial engagement with learning. A different sort of dysfunction results from adopting over-ambitious and therefore unrealistic development goals.

Consequence of Absence: Development is likely to be relevant when attempting the impossible and is a life-long requirement in any case. Avoiding or refusing to develop leads to personal stagnation and can interfere with responding to opportunities or incorporating innovations into efforts.

Cultivate-G26

Function in applying determination: To nurture a relationship or ability—despite temptations to abandon the quest.

Cultivating is constituted by confidently learning-g1 and unequivocally trusting-g2.

Base is provided by confidently absorbing knowledge and deepening understanding.

Drive comes from a devoted dedication based on unequivocally trusting.

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Focus of Binding: The betterment of a person's character or soul.

Inner Requirement: Self-sacrificefor the entity or capacity being cultivated.

What is at Stake:  Cultivation aims at an inner refinement and sometimes enlightenment of the higher self (PsH4G35). The end result should be an inner nobility within the character.

Dysfunction:  Pursuit of cultivation may become a form of indulgence and provide an escape from the rigours of everyday life.

Consequence of Absence: Without appropriate cultivation, a person will remain uncultured, unrefined and unenlightened. The effect when attempting the impossible will depend on the nature of the challenge, but in general a philosophical outlook will be helpful.

Contrast

G1-hopingappears to be a matter of personal assertion directed outwards to others who it is assumed will respond to the intrinsic positivity.

By contrast, the G2-determination is directed inwards to oneself but dependent on confirmation from others that they are reassured.


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Transition

Continuity has been promised—but often, especially in difficult situations and even given intense determination, it is easy to lose focus.

The possibility of going astray is ever-present. Determination does not protect you from dealing with diverse emerging difficulties, delays, uncertainties, setbacks, blocks and distracting diversions.

You are attempting the impossible after all, and (like Rome) it won't get completed in a day. So, whatever happens, you must endure and you must seek to prevail. This means demonstrating that you are indefatigable and unstoppable. You may not progress as you desire, but you must hold out and manage even in the most difficult situations.

Sustaining endurance is possible by adding an additional adjacent level to form triads which reveal the 5 essential means of prevailing.


Originally posted:  12-Jun-2026.